After decades of interviewing gurus for her multimedia publishing company Sounds True, Tami Simon has picked up the pen to share some insights of her own. Her new book, Being True: What Matters Most in Work, Life & Love, brims with 30 years of wisdom gleaned both from spiritual leaders and her own personal journey inward.
At Emerging Women’s Power Night Boulder, Tami let us in on the “5 Principles of Being True” she outlines in her book. We were captivated by her grace, humor and wit, and transfixed by her fresh perspective on living the truth of who you are. Read on to see why…
1. Recognize that each of us has never been here before
We are all unprecedented, and it’s important to acknowledge that. Referring to us all as “exploding mysteries,” Tami says it’s crucial to realize that no one can actually tell you how to be true. This means a lot coming from someone who’s questioned all the major players in the spiritual wisdom game. No one has the unique formula for your truth except you.
2. Spend time in a place where there are no reference points
We love this about Tami Simon. If you’ve listened to her Grace & Fire podcast, you know that Tami believes in The Mystery, and encourages us to spend time there. “Stop avoiding the void,” she says, and hang out in a space where there are no thoughts or images to rest upon. Why? Because it allows for unique transmissions that will leave you saying “Who the heck knew that?” Give the universe a chance to speak to you to find answers no guru can give.
3. Find directionality through natural inspiration
Tami is quick to point out that the inspirations you receive are often not glamorous, but a “Who knows?” attitude will give the phenomenal world a chance to play its hand. If you want to discover your Sacred Function, the universe is available to guide you towards it, as long as you’re willing to hang out in the unknown and be breathed by it.
4. Be brave and follow what’s needed
Don’t fall into the trap of “The Path of No Embarrassment.” It’s okay to be embarrassed. Tami assures us that she’s been embarrassed plenty of times and has not died from it yet. If acting on transmissions from the Mystery causes some serious awkward moments, at least we brought forth our love as best as we knew how. “That’s good!” says Tami, which brings us to…
5. Believe in your basic goodness
Pure goodness, Tami says, is bringing forth our gifts in service to others. You’ve got to believe that no matter what, your heart is filled with goodness. When you focus on that, you are filled with an unconditional confidence in goodness, and can act on your inspirations knowing they come from love.
Tami closed the brilliant Power Night evening with a blessing that reflected these 5 Principles of Being True up perfectly, and we’d like to share it with you here:
May our Sacred Functions come wildly alive. May you touch gazillions of people. May you shine your light without embarrassment.